Yeah, not being able to comment and being able to say "I care strongly about this" has been a good state for me. I sent a pretty upset set of emails regarding the modding in that thread last night (and probably got the cleanup a little more carefully trimmed), but I don't have the fortitude or the energy or attention to bring to having this discussion over on the Grey. Especially because let's be real, outside communities of queer/lgbtq women observers wind up boiling all of it down to playing oppression Olympics, whether or not both sides are actually being equally insensitive to each other.
(I feel identically to you re your parenthetical, fwiw.)
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Date: 2019-02-20 04:30 am (UTC)(I feel identically to you re your parenthetical, fwiw.)